Friday, December 26, 2008

how do i get a girlfriend

how do i get a girlfriend
by Coy Mccullough

Heres a few tips for online dating. Don't miss out on the chance at the bottom of the page...
Tip #1 Your Profile Is You And Your Reputation So Treat It As Such
What do you think a girl's first impression of you would be if she goes to your page because she is interested in you and the first thing she sees is other girl's comments about you or pictures of other girls. She will see it as she is just another dime in a million so don't have it be that way because she will not think highly of you.
So understand this concept and you will be making a great impression and not a lousy one.
Tip #1 Be Patient And Hold Your Thoughts
It is not always the smartest thing to do when you react with your impulses or with the first thoughts that come to mind. When looking at a girl's profile and seeing that she is gorgeous or amazing I understand you would want to have her right away but you must be patient. Remember that once you say something you can't take it back and worst off it is written down so you can't lie saying you didn't say it. So remember to choose your words carefully.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Dating girl | How get girl

Dating girl
by Trent Nelson
Always have a smile on your face. Now don't walk around like some weirdo constantly smiling without stopping. I mean when the occasion calls for it. The occasion calls for it once you see the prize you want. If your truly interested in how to get a girls attention, you will put the tough guy act away and crack a smile.
Have you ever been in the position where you see a hot girl and don't know what to say? If your human you most likely have been in this situation before. Don't worry it is common with most guys. It's funny because we tend to worry about things that never seem to happen. Haven't you noticed that? If you want to know how to get a girls attention, there's some rules you should follow.
Always maintain strong eye contact. This can make or break you. Having strong eye contact can show a sense of confidence and girls love this! Use it to your advantage and watch what happens.
Never let your fear take over you. This is what cripples most men. Stop worrying about what the girl will think. Try following the famous NIKE slogan and "Just Do It!" The longer you wait, the more fear will set in. The more fear sets in, the more you will find a reason not to get the job done.
Getting a girls attention may be tricky at first but keep practicing. Remember, practice makes perfect! If you get rejected who cares. You and I know there are thousands of other girls out there. With every rejection, there is the opportunity to become that much stronger.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Dating secrets

Dating secrets
by Rick Hester

Getting girls is simple once you know the exact steps... and just follow them! Guys ask me all the time "how to get girls" and I always tell them the same thing... follow the proven steps and just go for it!
Anyway, here's a couple of tips to get girls (check out the bottom for more advanced tactics.)
Show her that you know more than her- Why would this work? Well for the simple reason that women want to be around smart men and men who they can learn something from. Therefore when you show her that you know more than her she would automatically be more attracted to you and would instantly like you.
Develop a strong sense of humor- This is one thing which get you the most gorgeous looking woman out there easily. One thing every woman wants is a guy who can make her laugh and give her a great time. The best possible way to develop a great sense of humor is to watch a lot of stand up comedy shows and even read books on humor. You see doing this would naturally make you naturally funny.
Let her know that you have a high social value- This is one thing every girl desperately desires in her man and this is something which will instantly get her to like you. You see to get a high social value you don't need money or even looks but what you truly need is respect from other people. Try to build good rapport with people around you as that would automatically give you a high social value.

Sunday, December 7, 2008

datting site

how to approach girl by Clair Nieves

Today I'm going to give you the information that will help you get girls online. Getting girls using online dating sites has become icreasingly popular. In this article I've laid down a couple of points to keep in mind when using these sites to get women.

If your more of the adventurous type who wants to know the exact steps and specific directions to get almost any girl, then I suggest you check out the link at the bottom of this article.

How To Approach A Girl Online

The first thing to think about before approaching a girl online with a message or comment is that there are millions of guys out there about the send her the same cheesy pickup line that you are thinking about sending her. In order to impress a girl just like in face to face approach is to be unique and be different from the rest. If you come with the same old stuff as other guys she won't even give you the time of day. You must learn to be smooth and the way to do it is to pay attention to her profile read it and find something that you can relate with her. This is a great way to start a conversation that I am sure she will love to talk about. By doing this you are guaranteed a response back.

In order to to utilize these tips to their full potential you must understand that it takes time and some rejections to actually master. The goal is not to give up and keep going you must not let rejection be the end of it. The way to look at it is to have rejection be your motivation to get better and better. Do this consistently and you will get girls to like you and even love you.

Your Profile Represents Who You Are

You have to understand that you are going to be judged by the things that are in your profile. For Example if a girl really likes you and decides to go on your profile only to see that there are a bunch of pictures of other girls I am sure she will be disappointed thinking the worst of you. You have to take this in to consideration and keep your profile in a way that shows what you want people to think of you. If you want people to be attracted by you then make your profile attractive. Practice this and you will be on the right track to master online dating.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

How To Approach A Girl Online

how to approach girl
by Clair Nieves

Today I'm going to give you the information that will help you get girls online. Getting girls using online dating sites has become icreasingly popular. In this article I've laid down a couple of points to keep in mind when using these sites to get women.

If your more of the adventurous type who wants to know the exact steps and specific directions to get almost any girl, then I suggest you check out the link at the bottom of this article.

How To Approach A Girl Online

The first thing to think about before approaching a girl online with a message or comment is that there are millions of guys out there about the send her the same cheesy pickup line that you are thinking about sending her. In order to impress a girl just like in face to face approach is to be unique and be different from the rest. If you come with the same old stuff as other guys she won't even give you the time of day. You must learn to be smooth and the way to do it is to pay attention to her profile read it and find something that you can relate with her. This is a great way to start a conversation that I am sure she will love to talk about. By doing this you are guaranteed a response back.

In order to to utilize these tips to their full potential you must understand that it takes time and some rejections to actually master. The goal is not to give up and keep going you must not let rejection be the end of it. The way to look at it is to have rejection be your motivation to get better and better. Do this consistently and you will get girls to like you and even love you.

Your Profile Represents Who You Are

You have to understand that you are going to be judged by the things that are in your profile. For Example if a girl really likes you and decides to go on your profile only to see that there are a bunch of pictures of other girls I am sure she will be disappointed thinking the worst of you. You have to take this in to consideration and keep your profile in a way that shows what you want people to think of you. If you want people to be attracted by you then make your profile attractive. Practice this and you will be on the right track to master online dating.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Optimizing Your Dating Site

Optimizing Your Dating Site: Getting it found on Google
by Jack Strawman

So you have laboured intensively over your PHP, CSS, and HTML for months and months to finally unveil your ultimate masterpiece: a unique dating website with the most advanced chat and dating features available. Or, perhaps you finally pulled out the old credit card and purchased a readymade script, and have finally figured out how to successfully upload the thing onto the net. Either way, I'm sure you've already decided on the niche you plan to fill, be it for a specific geographical location, or a specific group or subculture. After all, creating a general and international site may seem appealing at first, but that niche has been way overfilled. Besides, who wants to join a dating website where the other 16 members are dispersed all over the globe? Nevertheless, the days and weeks are passing by, and the members you thought would flock to your new and amazing creation just aren't coming, and even your closest friends aren't checking their profiles anymore. It's time to get your dating website noticed. It's time to get found on Google.The process of getting your website found on the search engines is called SEO (Search Engine Optimization), and the search engine you need to concentrate most of your efforts on is Google. Google is now king of the hill, and if you can impress this great king, it's likely you will also impress the rest of the nobles (i.e. Yahoo, MSN, etc.). This will not be an easy task, as there are millions of other worthy subjects also desperately vying for Google's attention. Unfortunately, Google only has room for so many at the head table. This is because the majority of internet searches never go beyond the first two pages. So if you're not in the top 20 for at least one keyword or phrase, you might as well not even exist. So no matter how awesome you think your new dating site is, and no matter how much your friends say they like it, it will take a significant number of members to call the thing a success. So unless you're planning on doing some local advertising, which can be a good idea at times, your best bet is to vie for one of these cherished positions.
The first thing you have to do is pick your keywords and phrases. These are the words and phrases that people will type into Google and ultimately find your site. Unless you have picked a domain name that already contains your keywords, like datingdivorcedgrandmothers.com, you will have to figure out what words people are already searching for in regards to your unique niche, and create a title tag with these words. The best way to do this is to find keyword tools on the internet to help you figure out what people are searching for. Opening up a Google Adwords account can be a great idea, if for nothing else but to use Google's keyword tool. This will tell you how many times certain words and phrases are searched for every month. You'll want to pick words and phrases that are relevant to your site, and that get searched for a moderate amount of times each month. You don't want to try to optimize your site for the keyword dating, because there is simply too much competition. And unless you plan to spend a million dollars a year on an SEO company, as many of these sites are doing, you won't stand a chance. Your best efforts are spent fighting for keyphrases like divorced dating or Detroit dating. Better yet: divorced dating in Detroit.
When you've figured out what keywords you're going to vie for, it's time to make sure you've placed these words in your title tags. I'm always surprised at how many new dating sites are using their actual name for the title. Nobody will be searching for: thegreatloveboutique.com, unless of course they've heard it somewhere. Once again, think of the words people will be using in their actual searches that could lead them to your site. When you've placed these words in your title tags, changing them up a bit for each page of your site, you then need to make sure you've also placed them in your meta-tags, along with dispersing them throughout the content of your site. You can even place these keywords in your alt tags for images, and title tags for links. However, don't go overboard. If you use these keywords too much, Google will penalize you for what they call spamming. Try to keep it as natural as you can. If you don't know how to do any of this, your best bet is to Google how. Without knowing how to do this, you're site really doesn't stand a chance.
Although there is a great deal more you should learn about onsite optimization (what you do to your site to get found), the majority of your time should be spent on acquiring links for your site (offsite optimization). This is when another website links to your website. Google considers this a kind of vote, and the more votes you get, especially from similar sites, the more Google will push you up the ranks. Now here is the process I would go through. First, submit your site to as many dating directories as you can. You should start with the high PR (PageRank) sites, and move your way down. If you don't have a Google toolbar that shows PageRank at the top of your screen, get one. Google it and download one. The higher the PageRank, the more valuable the link will be back to yours. And the more links you get, the more PageRank you will get (just be warned that Google only updates their PageRank on the screen ever few months). Many of these directories will ask for you to link back to them. This is called a reciprocal link, and it's a bit of a pain in the neck. If you know how to enter links into your code, do so at your best discretion. Reciprocal links can help, especially if they are from a relevant and high PR site, but they are not as valuable as a one-way link.
When you're done with directories, it would also be a good idea to look for other dating sites that might want to trade links with you. However, be warned. Many dating sites will require you to first give them a link before they consider your site. You then take the time to enter their link on your site, and you never do hear back from them. Even though most website owners eventually remove the links to sites that never link back, these mean sites count on the few who don't check. After a few weeks of trading links with dating sites and directories, you will likely want to put your head into a noose. The dishonesty and selfishness of even the most successful dating sites will absolutely astonish you. If you're ambitious, you will monitor your backlinks (links to your site) every few months, because some sites will remove them to make your reciprocal link a one-way link from you to them.
All in all, however, directory links, reciprocal links, and 3-way links are not worth that much anymore. This is because Google is hoping sites acquire links the natural way. This would happen if someone really likes your site and adds a link to it from their own relevant site. If they use your keywords in the link, this link becomes even more valuable. However, you'll find out eventually that not many people do this, unless a site is really, really amazing, or the content is especially unique or incredible. Nevertheless, it's always a good idea to try to solicit links from people who do find your site. The best way to do this is to offer up a textarea box that contains your link code, using your keywords as the link or anchor text. Above the code can you can place a nice little note soliciting a link. Once again, not many site owners will do this for nothing, but every now and again you might be pleasantly surprised. Just don't promise them a link back unless you're actually intending to consider it. Way too many dating sites already practice this dishonest behaviour. Then, when your link requests have been strategically placed throughout your site, where admiring visitors can find them, you will probably want to consider advertising. Google Adwords now provides one of the most cost-effective ways of advertising. This advertising is targeted, so people looking for a particular dating site can find yours, at least until your site works its way up the ranks and gets found that way. Best of luck.

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Dating site for you

Looking for Love Online at Free Dating Agencies
by Tammy Johnston

This electronic world we live in is great. The modern century has helped many single people to find love online. There are many online free dating agencies which create the tool to help singles to find their partners on the Internet. In other words, looking for love online at free dating agencies is easy and convenient. Seeking for a date at a bar or nightclub is an old way. Nowadays, most of people know how to use the Internet. It is better and quicker to find online love. It is so fast to find million of singles in front of your computer. That's true. For a few minutes of your time, you can find million of online singles like yourself who are waiting for their partners. Do you have a computer? Do you have an Internet connection? If you answer yes to these two questions, then you can find a companion online.
Looking for online love at a free online dating agency does not cost you any fee. There is a variety of dating lifestyles. You can search for local singles, religious singles, and international singles as well. Single people have found each other online from the same interests they found on any specific dating site. Seeking for love on net is just so easy and simple. You need to have a profile which describe who you are and who you are looking for in terms of relationships. Some single people want to look for activity partners, short-term relationships, long-term relationships, marriage, and others from these free dating sites. You can specify on your profile in terms of dating matches. You will receive instant messages whenever you are matched with someone at that specific dating service.
Seeking for love on net at free dating online agencies is convenient. You can search for love at the comfort of your computer, on the sofa, on the basement, or any other places in your house. It is free. Single people seek on line love have been increasing in recent years. There are more free dating agencies on the market nowadays. Best of all, free dating online agencies help singles to find love and romance on the Internet without requesting any fee. So, singles online should help these free dating sites by reporting any illegal activity from these sites. There are a few online dating scams who take the advantage of these free dating sites to send distracted messages to members. If you receive any message like this, please report the website administrator immediately.
Looking for love online from free dating agencies has been popular these days. Thousands of relationships and marriage are created from meeting partners at a free dating agency initially. It is completely free to find your companion on the Internet. Are you ready to look for love online? Being single is not fun. You need to find a nice companion. Joining these totally free online dating agencies to find love and romance on the Internet is the first start. Take your action today.